More than Miles

Running has been an important part of my life since the beginning of high school. Competing at a high level, winning races, and achieving my goals was always the most fulfilling part of the sport. When I came into college, I wasn’t sure how my relationship with running would change now that I was no longer surrounded by the first girls who understood my love and dedication for the sport. In addition to that, now running was something I did purely for fun. I held tightly to the rigid mindset of what running had always been to me, and by the end of my first year of college, I felt my love for the sport begin to slip away. That feeling was so alarming, because in all my years of running, I had never experienced anything like it.

My little and I!

However, everything changed when I returned to UF for my sophomore year. I began running with my sisters in Chi Omega, and with every run, I felt my true love for the sport slowly return. My mindset shifted and running became more than something I did to satisfy my competitive nature. It became a way to connect with myself, with God, and with some of my closest friends. 

Some of my favorite runs didn’t happen alone. They happened early in the morning with sleepy conversations, blasting music, and endless laughter. Running gave me a new way to connect with my Chi O sisters outside of chapter meetings and social events. Whether it was training for a race, getting coffee and bagels after a long run, or showing up to support one another on race day, those moments built bonds that felt effortless and genuine. There’s something special about working together toward a shared goal, creating a sense of sisterhood that truly sticks. 

My Twin in Chi Omega and Best friend hugging me right after I finished Donna Marathon

Most recently, training for races like the Donna Marathon reminded me how powerful a community can be. Knowing I wasn’t running just for myself, but for something bigger, made every mile more meaningful. On days when I didn’t feel like getting up or giving up mid run, I found strength knowing my sisters were running beside me giving me the extra encouragement I needed. Seeing familiar faces at the starting line and feeling their support along the course reinforced how lucky I am to be surrounded by people who push me to be my best. Although some of my sisters aren’t big runners themselves, they supported me in the cold with funny signs and so much love that made me feel seen and valued in a way I never had before. While achieving goals like qualifying for the Boston Marathon was incredibly special, those moments would not have the same without their support. 

Chi Omega emphasizes sisterhood, service, and balance, and running became a way for me to live those values in real time. For example, running helped me find balance in a life that often feels nonstop. Between classes, commitments, and social responsibilities, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. Running forces me to slow down mentally, even while I’m moving physically. It’s where I process my thoughts, reset my priorities, and remind myself that taking care of my body is just as important as checking off a to-do list. 

That balance has made me a better student, a better friend, and a more present sister. What started as a personal outlet has turned into something that strengthened my relationships, grounded my routine, and gave me confidence I carry into every part of my life. Running has taught me discipline, resilience, and the importance of showing up, for myself and for others. Sharing that journey with my sisters in Chi Omega has made it even more meaningful. Every mile reminds me that growth doesn’t happen alone, and that balance is found when passion, community, and purpose come together.

xoxo,

Lindsey Duffner (MC 24.5)

My Chi Omega friends who came to support me and the funny signs they made